Thursday, June 10, 2010

Basis of This Study

I based the topic of this study on a book I read titled, Liberated Through Submission.  The titles of three lessons, Faith + Submission = Power, Lost in the Garden, and Submission and the Married Man, were pulled from the book.  Many of the Bible verses quoted for those lessons came straight from the book, with some colorful commentary from me.  Parts of the book I don't agree with, but it at least got me to thinking and inspired me to do some research of my own.

Just wanted to let you know and give credit where credit is due...

When I am Weak, I am Strong

I read an article a few weeks back where the author described what she called the “dailyness” of her life. She said life wouldn’t be so hard if it weren’t so daily. She figured anyone could handle one temper tantrum of a two year old. Anyone can handle one day without work. Anyone can handle one argument with your spouse. It’s when the child is crying every day, when you can’t find a job for months, and when relationship problems linger that you begin to lose your strength.

After a Bible study class or after reading a good article or hearing a good sermon or even just after having a good talk with a friend, I can be motivated and energized about God’s will for me and my family. But then the dailyness of it creeps back in and it’s then that the race set before us seems to be unwinnable. Maybe a job falls through or the water heater breaks. Maybe your friend hurts your feelings. Maybe there’s a death or illness.

It may be at times like that we feel we are not growing in God, not moving forward, and maybe actually going backwards. Why? Why would it be part of God’s plan to move us backward?

There is a quote that says, “I tell you, if you are serious about wanting to be like Christ, He is going to put you in circumstances where your only true choice is to become like Him.”

"I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt; I will make you live in tents again, as in the days of your appointed feasts." Hosea 12:9 (NIV)

From another article: the Israelites were constantly being sent back by God. They were delivered out of Egypt, yet complained along the way. They were brought out of slavery, yet didn’t trust God to lead them through the wilderness. God knew that the best thing for them was to return to the days when Israelites had to lean on God the most, when they were focused on God and His goodness.

We can read in 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 about Paul’s weakness. He was sent a thorn in the flesh which he called a messenger of Satan. He begged God to remove the thorn, but God refused stating, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Paul accepted this decision and said, “Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”

So it may be that at times we are sent to the tents so that we can recognize that our strength does not come from our own ability, but rather from God. Michael Powell described it this way in a class once: who is stronger, me on my own or me with God? The obvious answer is me with God. When is God most present in my life? When things are going good and I’m riding high or when I am in the tents and feeling despair? God is most present in adversity. So our obligation is to recognize that and be more like Paul by delighting in our weakness.

C.S. Lewis said, "The thing is to rely on God... Meanwhile, the trouble is that relying on God has to begin all over again every day as if nothing has yet been done."

In the article on our dailyness, the author said that your dailyness isn’t like hers which isn’t like mine, but is still God ordained. It is exactly what we need to live dependant on God rather than ourselves or humans in our life.

Sometimes we are tired, overwhelmed, or just plain mad. It’s then that we need to stop, take a breath, say a prayer, and lean on God. His power is made perfect in our weakness. The flat tire that I had on the way to work is holy. The harsh word my husband said to me today is holy. The sadness in my heart when my child is in the tent is holy. His power is made perfect in my weakness.

"Blessed is the man who listens to me, watching daily at my doors, waiting at my doorway." Proverbs 8:34 (NIV)

"Give us today our daily bread." Matthew 6:11 (NIV)

"Then He said to them all: 'If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.'" Luke 9:23 (NIV)

"Our people must learn to devote themselves to doing what is good, in order that they may provide for daily necessitates and not live unproductive lives." Titus 3:14 (NIV)

Every one of those verses says that we should expect nothing more than DAILY provisions. It’s just like the manna provided to the Israelites which would spoil after a day’s time. Be aware that this isn’t just limited to food, shelter, etc. God gives you just enough strength to make it through the first day after the death of a loved one. Then he will give you just enough strength to make it through the second day after the death of a loved one. Not providing us the depth of understanding required to immediately handle the problems we face keeps us dependent on Him and perfects His power.

"The whole company that had returned from exile built booths and lived in them. From the days of Joshua son of Nun until that day, the Israelites had not celebrated like this. And their joy was very great." Nehemiah 8:17 (NIV)

"They will know that I am the LORD their God, who brought them out of Egypt so that I might dwell among them. I am the LORD their God." Exodus 29:46 (NIV)

We are closer to God when we are in adversity. He is present and we are joyful – in adversity.

How would our life be different if we started each day thanking God for this day and the struggles it contains?

How can trusting God with our daily struggles point others to Him?

Think of a time when God took you backwards. What did you learn from that time? Did you draw closer to God?

Friday, June 4, 2010

The Result of Submission - Unity

Well, I could just scream.  I just typed out this huge post about last night's lesson and for some mystical reason, it wasn't autosaving and I hit Publish and got a screen saying, "We're Sorry.  We can't perform that operation."  Aaarrgghhh.  Maybe it's a good thing, though, because I was feeling pretty preachy.  So let's try AGAIN.

While researching for last night's topic, I came across a website that has all different kinds of sermon outlines with Bible verses etc.  I found one that was dead on what I wanted to talk about, so I just borrowed it verbatim, only adding my commentary along the way.  You can see that outline here.  This post will be limited to my thoughts on the topic.

During this series of lessons we have been studying submission / hupotasso.  When you put it in context of battle, I get it.  I get that as Christians we are at war with Satan.  He is roaming around seeking those he can devour.  He is like a wolf at the door.  He wants me, my soul, my children, and their souls.  He wants you.  I get that for an army to be successful, there must be order in the ranks.  With the new understanding I have gained in the past couple of months, I see that I am called to hupotasso, to arrange myself in order under.  As Shannon has pointed out, we have a problem with the word SUBMIT, not the theory behind it.  So as the saying goes, change your vocabulary, change your life.  Now instead of SUBMIT (and all of the negativity that I have associated with it), I say that I am called to arrange myself in order under.  I am good with that.

Sticking with the military theme, the purpose of arranging yourself in order under is to be better in battle, to be unified.  The most tangible benefit of hupotasso is UNITY.  This means UNITY at home and UNITY in the church.  To be a unified church, the church must have the right attitude, the right doctrine, the right organization, and the right spirit.

To have the right attitude, we must be content with ourselves.  Paul wrote that he was content in plenty and in want.  When he wrote the letter on contentment, he was in a Roman prison.  He was not afforded Constitutional rights or civil rights.  He was tortured, cold, hungry, sick, alone.  Yet he found contentment in his circumstances.  How?  Through Christ, who strengthens him.  We must also be content with our fellow man.  We are to live at peace.  We are to rejoice with those that rejoice, weep with those that weep.  Our neighbor's struggle is OUR struggle.  We are to be patient and kind.  This build UNITY.  Lastly, we are to be content with God and the authority of Christ.  Those not in submission to the authority of Christ will cause disharmony.

To have the right doctrine, we must focus on the one body, one spirit, one hope, one Lord, one faith, one baptism, and one Father.  Many of you know that my husband and I have had our ups and downs during our 15 year marriage, but one thing that we keep coming back to is our unified plan for our family.  We are on the same page.  We have the same fundamental beliefs about how to be a family.  So the problems we face are constantly being held up to our foundation.  We certainly get distracted and sometimes forget the foundation, but then we snap out of our selfish needs and get back to basics.  We love each other.  We love our children.  We love God.  We want to guide this family through the world in such a way that we all make it to heaven.  That is our fundamental goal.  The same should be true for the church.  We love each other, we love the next generation, we love God, we want to guide this church family through the world in such a way as to get us all to heaven.  Jude 1:3 calls us to contend for the faith entrusted to all saints.  Two thousand years ago Christ died on the cross. These years later, we are still telling the story. I saw a movie the other night called The Road. As a whole the movie wasn't that good, in my opinion. But there was a line in it where the son is talking to the father about why they are on this path, why don't they just give up like everyone else. The father says they don't give up because they are carrying The Fire. They are the good guys. They have been entrusted with goodness, and it is their obligation to carry that into the future.  We have been given the Word of God.  Sticking to that foundation will build UNITY and grow the church.

To have the right organization, we have to internalize that we are many members in one body.  Christ rules us from heaven, but we are the hands and feet of the church.  We each have a purpose.  Some are called to teach, some to preach, some to pray, some to help those in need.  As we've said before, God is perfect.  His creations are perfect.  God made you exactly like you were supposed to be.  Moses didn't believe he was fit to deliver the Israelites because he couldn't speak well.  God told him that he was made perfectly for the job (he was the Israelites' huckleberry).  We have to believe that we each have something to offer the body.  Every single cell of the body is necessary for the body to work properly.  Dr. Seuss says, "“Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.”  You are you for a reason.  You have gifts given to you by God for use in His kingdom.  Value those gifts in yourself and value the gifts given to others.  Everyone has something to offer the body.  Finding value in yourself and in others will build UNITY because you will see that we are all needed. 

To have the right spirit, we have to realize that when there is UNITY in a family or in a church, growth and edification will result.  Where there is division, fragmentation and decay result.  I just read a book review that says that a big predictor of a future divorce is eye rolling after a comment by a spouse.  Something that seems fairly harmless leads to a lack of UNITY.  I am sure that the same applies to the church.  Have you ever rolled your eyes (even if only on the inside) at an announcement made by an elder?  I know I have.  That is the beginning of a lack of UNITY.

In class, we had Chris Radcliffe visit and lead us in a song that struck a chord with me.  This song has a chant like quality to it.  I like songs like that.  I know we have learned that the first Century church didn't really sing with melody and harmony.  They simply chanted verses from the Scripture.  I like chant like songs for two reasons.  One, it makes me feel closer to the first Christians, those who personally knew Jesus.  Two, it is a way to get a simple, clean thought into my heart and head.  So here is the song we sang.  Click on the title to hear a version of it.


We are one in the Spirit, we are one in the Lord
We are one in the Spirit, we are one in the Lord
And we pray that all unity may one day be restored

And they'll know we are Christians by our love, by our love
They will know we are Christians by our love

We will work with each other, we will work side by side
We will work with each other, we will work side by side
And we'll guard each one's dignity and save each one's pride

And they'll know we are Christians by our love, by our love
They will know we are Christians by our love
By our love, by our love
And they'll know we are Christians by our love, by our love
They will know we are Christians by our love

We will walk with each other, we will walk hand in hand
We will walk with each other, we will walk hand in hand
And together we'll spread the news that God is in our land

And they'll know we are Christians by our love, by our love
They will know we are Christians by our love
By our love, by our love
And they'll know we are Christians by our love, by our love
They will know we are Christians by our love

Here's another version where the singer replaces the last line of the second verse with "we'll give up all our dignity and crucify our pride."  I like that a lot.

Now the last thing I have to say on this is that I think as Christians in America we don't realize how good we actually have it.  I Googled "persecution of Christians today" and retrieved headline after headline about Christians across the world being killed simply for being a Christian.  In one article, a priest and some deacons were stopped on a road in Pakistan (I think) and were told to convert to Islam.  When they refused, the were shot.  In another article, a church was burned killing the women and children inside.  This is happening in Saudi Arabia, Iraq, Iran, India, Vietnam, China, Pakistan, Afghanistan, etc., all while the government either turns a blind eye or even participates.  Christian martyrdom isn't a thing of ancient Rome.  This is now.  This is real.  We have to put aside our small problems for the strength of the church and to show solidarity for the Christians being persecuted around the world even as you read this.